About RishteDesk

A marriage platform for Pakistani families of every faith, at home and around the world — built around privacy, verification and family involvement.

A Pakistani bride and groom smiling on their wedding day

Why RishteDesk exists

Finding a spouse should feel safe, respectful and family-friendly.

Many families told us the same things: online rishta sites felt like dating apps, numbers ended up in the wrong hands, and it was hard to know who was genuine. RishteDesk was built to fix exactly that — a serious place to find a spouse, where every profile is checked, privacy comes first, and families can take part openly.

What makes us different

Built around trust, not traffic

Every profile reviewed by a person

A member of our team checks each profile before it goes live. Profiles that look fake, unserious or unsafe are not published.

Your contact details stay private

Phone numbers, emails and social handles are removed from messages automatically, and never appear on a profile.

Voice and video calls inside RishteDesk

Talk before you meet without giving out your number. Calls are not recorded.

Families are welcome

A parent, sibling or guardian can help manage a profile, and a wali can join a conversation openly — everyone can see who is present.

Matches that explain themselves

Every suggestion shows why it was made and where the two of you differ, so you can decide quickly and fairly.

Verification you can trust

Contact, photo and ID verification badges appear only after the evidence has been checked. You can search for verified profiles only.

Every faith, every family

Muslim, Christian, Hindu, Sikh, Parsi and other families. Search within your own faith or across faiths, as your family prefers.

Pakistan first, and the world

Built for families across every province of Pakistan and for Pakistanis overseas, in English, Urdu and nine more languages.

Our promises

What we will never do

  • We never write a profile, a message or a success story ourselves.
  • We never show your phone number or email to another member.
  • We never charge you automatically — every payment is one you choose to make.
  • AI can help us spot problems, but a person makes every decision about your account.
  • Profiles are never shown to search engines.
  • You can download your data or close your account at any time.

The full detail is in our Terms, Privacy policy and Community guidelines.

Who we serve

Pakistani families, wherever they live

Across Pakistan

Punjab, Sindh, Khyber Pakhtunkhwa, Balochistan, Islamabad, Gilgit-Baltistan and Azad Kashmir — from the largest cities to smaller towns.

Pakistanis overseas

Families in the UK, the USA, Canada, the Gulf, Europe and Australia looking for a match with shared roots and values. Travel mode helps when you are visiting home.

Every faith and community

Choose your religion on your profile, add your community if you wish, and search within it or more widely — your family decides.

Who runs RishteDesk

A registered Pakistani company

RishteDesk is a service operated by ARBSBUY (SMC-PRIVATE) LIMITED, a company incorporated in Pakistan under the Companies Act 2017 (CUIN 0310402). The same company runs Arbsbuy.pk, an online marketplace for Pakistan.

General questions
hello@rishtedesk.com
Payments and membership
billing@rishtedesk.com
Safety and reports
safety@rishtedesk.com
Replies
Within 2 working days

Questions

About RishteDesk, briefly

Is RishteDesk a dating app?

No. RishteDesk is for marriage only. There is no swiping and no public feed, and a conversation opens only when both sides accept an interest.

Is RishteDesk only for Muslims?

No. It is for Pakistani families of every faith — Muslim, Christian, Hindu, Sikh, Parsi and others.

Is it free?

Creating a profile and replying to anyone who contacts you is always free. During the Founding Member launch, every Premium feature is free too.

How do I contact you?

Email hello@rishtedesk.com, or use the Contact page. We reply within 2 working days.

Start with a free profile. Your family decides the rest.