Marriage intent only
Verified profiles, private communication, and matching that explains itself — built for Pakistani families of every faith, at home and around the world, with families welcome in the conversation.
Free to join and to browse. No card needed to start.
What makes this different
Every field on your profile has its own visibility setting. Your contact details are not one of them — they are never shown to anyone, at any setting.
A parent, sibling, guardian or authorised matchmaker can manage a profile, and a wali can sit in a conversation — visibly, never hidden from the other side.
Every profile is reviewed by hand before it goes live. A verification badge only appears when that verification actually happened.
Verification
Badges are earned in steps. Each one appears only after a person on our team has checked the evidence, and each tells other families something specific.
Email address confirmed as belonging to this member.
The photographs on this profile are of this member.
A government document confirms this member’s name and age.
Identity confirmed and a member of our team has spoken with them on video.
Members can search for verified profiles only, and a verified profile shows others that you are serious. Create free profile
How rishtas come together
Lahore and Dubai
Her mother created and managed the profile. His sister joined the conversation openly as wali. After three video calls inside RishteDesk — no numbers shared — the two families met in person.
Toronto and Lahore
He searched within his own faith and turned on travel mode before a visit home. Their Why-this-match note showed the same outlook on family and work. Both families took it from there.
Karachi
Both verified their profiles before sending an interest, and kept their photos private until each approved the other. Their conversation stayed on RishteDesk until their families were ready to meet.
These are illustrative journeys showing how families use RishteDesk. They are not real couples, and the photographs are stock images. Real stories will appear here only with each couple's permission, in their own words. Married through RishteDesk? Share your story →
Every faith welcome
RishteDesk is for marriage, not dating — and it is for every family. Choose your religion when you create your profile, and search within it or across faiths, as your family prefers.
Also Parsi, and members of any other faith or none.
How it works
Tell us who you are and what you are looking for. Decide what each field shows, and to whom.
Email and mobile first, then photo, identity, education or profession — as far as you choose to go.
Matches arrive with reasons, and with the places you differ stated plainly rather than hidden.
Conversations open only when both sides agree, and a wali can be part of them openly.
No feed, no swiping
There is no feed, no swiping, and no way to be seen by people who are not looking for the same thing. Conversations open only when both sides say yes.
RishteDesk is a service operated by ARBSBUY (SMC-PRIVATE) LIMITED, a company incorporated in Pakistan under the Companies Act 2017 (CUIN 0310402). Contact details are stripped from messages, calls never reveal a number, private photos stay private until you approve, and every report is read by a person.
Guides
Using RishteDesk
Why "simple, God-fearing, family-oriented" says nothing, and what to write instead.
4 min read
Getting to know someone
A practical order for the early conversations, and the answers that should make you slow down.
5 min read
Families and elders
How to give your family a real role without handing over your account — and what to do when their standards and yours differ.
4 min read
Coming soon
The Android and iPhone apps are in development. Your profile, matches, messages and calls will be in the app exactly as they are on the website — one account for both.
Create your profile on the website today — it will be waiting for you in the app. Create free profile
Questions
Yes. Creating a profile, browsing and replying to anyone who contacts you are free, and no card is needed. Paid memberships add more interests, filters and features; they are billed in Pakistani rupees.
No. RishteDesk is for Pakistani families of every faith — Muslim, Christian, Hindu, Sikh, Parsi and others. You choose your religion on your profile and can search within it or across faiths.
Never. Contact details are removed from messages automatically, and voice and video calls run inside RishteDesk without either side seeing a number.
Every profile is reviewed before it goes live, and verification badges — contact, photo, identity and full — appear only after the evidence has been checked. You can search for verified profiles only.
Yes. A parent, sibling or guardian can help manage a profile, and a wali can join a conversation openly, visible to both sides.
Free to join
Creating a profile and browsing costs nothing, and no card is needed. Upgrade only if and when you want more.
Welcome. Ask me anything about RishteDesk — how it works, what it costs, or how your privacy is handled. You can write in English or Urdu.
An assistant, not a person. For a complaint, a refund or anything about safety, email hello@rishtedesk.com. Never share a password or an OTP here.
